If you are in a relationship right now or looking to be in a relationship and your aim is to keep it halal, here are some of the things you can do with your partner while getting to know each other.
1. memorize Quran together; both of you can pick any Surah at random, give yourself time and when next you meet you can recite to each other. You can do that every two weeks and before you know it y'all know plenty.
2. Fasting together; fasting together at the same time will prevent both of you from talking about inappropriate things i.e intimate things and Will help you lower your gaze. Fasting to please Allah is a visa to Jannah so apart from the fact that you are using it to guard your modesty, both of you are also getting reward.
3. Memorize the 99 names of Allah with the meaning; take it 5/10 names at a time and when you meet again you can also test yourselves. Whoever memorize the 99 names of Allah will enter Jannah let's not forget.
4. Watch Islamic clips together;learning together will make you grow together on same level of deen. Nobody will scold anyone about not picking up new habit or not doing stuff appropriate.
5. Dressing up during video calls; it is very important to still look modest while talking over the phone with our partners.Sisters we still have to wear our hijabs and brothers should not wear just boxers.
6. Dua; Making dua for each other in front and behind is one way of showing true love.
7. Sharing knowledge; the very first person we should be texting about something new we just learnt is our partner. Sharing is caring and even if they already know, it's still a reminder.
8. Never to meet in private; Whenever two people who are allowed to get married are in a place alone, there will always be a third being, shayton who will try to get you two to commit haram acts (kissing, fondling, fornication. Yes, it is possible to have a partner you want to marry soon without physical contact. It's all about the mind (what both of you want) the fear of Allah, complete sincerity, total submission to Allah,plenty of dua and trusting in Allah that He will help guide you through it. May Allah guide us
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