Wednesday, 22 November 2017

My message to men who complain about girls who don't dress modestly on their Instagram timeline

Brothers need to understand that the Quran says they should observe hijab first, not women. You are responsible to lower your gaze too cause when Allah spoke about lowering the gaze,He spoke to you first and that's not a typo cause Al Quran is perfect.


Al Quran commands you not to stare at women and not to be promiscuous.
Quran 24:30 obliges you to observe modesty: “Say to the believing men that they restrain their eyes and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Surely, Allah is well aware of what they do.”
I am not saying that it's okay for a woman to show her skin in public but I want you  to understand that everyone is responsible for their actions. The eyes, mouth,hands will bear witness on the day of judgement.


If you can not advise a sister who is dressing anyhow on your TL, it is your responsibility to  safeguard yourself from seeing her post.
To block or unfollow is the way to show that you do not enjoy seeing them and In as much as you want to live in the dunya to get to Jannah,You should find every means of separating yourself from fitna.
Quran 66:6 "O ye who believe! save yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is Men and Stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who flinch not (from executing) the Commands they receive from Allah, but do (precisely) what they are commanded."
If a sister deprives joy in posting pictures of her cleavage and wears clothes that are revealing, allow her enjoy but remove yourself from it.


Don't complain and stare,rather you should love yourself enough to not want to see her body cause you fear the punishment of your grave.


A very beautiful woman approached the Prophet SAW to seek his guidance on some religious matters and  Al Fadl began to stare at her because of her beauty and the Prophet  SAW did not scold the woman for dressing immodestly or revealing her beauty. Instead, he “reached his hand backwards, catching Al Fadl’s chin, and turned his face to the other side so that he would not gaze at her”. When a man chooses to accept Islam, He chooses to observe hijab first cause it's obligation.
I advise to stop obsessing over women, and worry about reforming yourself

1 comment:

  1. Well said. May Allah keep increasing our wisdom and knowledge.

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